I Remebered The Woman Who Changed My Heart

It's weird that I remembered a person who twisted my life's journey out of destiny or maybe just a coincidence. She's really pretty, yet every time I remember her, fear starts to settle within me. Why? I see her as a venomous snake. Not her really, but her attitude. Let me explain why and I'll use my talent in writing to keep it discreet as it should be.

I had a moment in my life that I was so happy I met a person who knew me very well. We clicked in almost any topic, had long talks, shared the Gospel, planned together and shared dreams. I'm aware that it could be a dream that was meant to prepare me to face a life that's different. But I loved every moment I'm with him. Why I'm certain of this? I dreamed of him before I met him. It's unbelievable. Yet, the moment I agreed to live a life that has been planned by God for me, everything changed.

The woman who changed my heart heart secretly fell in love with 'him". It's me, the girl and the man played this awful scenario of unfaithfulness, pain and moving on. She always takes care of me when I'm around without me knowing that she's checking if me and the man were still connected, hearts still combined in that dream I'd already known. No, she didn't know that the man fell apart but still with me. There was a happy moment to talk about a marriage. There was an exciting gush to prepare for a future together. There was me and the man she longed to love. I'm skeptical about the marriage, especially when worry and wisdom filled mt heart and soul.

There was a slight indifference in all the connection I had with him when the same girl appeared in the picture. Then, the mysterious marriage proposal became a tragedy which changed my heart forever. No more trusting, no more hoping, no more traitor friends. With all the energy I could muster, I gave him the choice he always had. I'm already on my way to love another person who is so faithful and God-fearing. I'm sure there were tears falling in his eyes when I finally turned my back, and laughter roared behind me when I said "The dream is over. Go back to reality. There, you'll never see me again to take care of you so dearly. There, she's going to ruin your reputation. I hope, not. Because a part of you remains with me".

There was a dreaded silence. There was an impending call to remain true. But the union of two dreamers can never happen. That's why I'll always think that I shouldn't fall in love with a dreamer.

Now, all that's left is reminder. Never be with someone who likes to love a snake. I cannot. Because I hate snakes. Ask my sister, if it's unbelievable. Lastly, don't trust a guy to a suspicious girl. Believe me, you'll get unnoticed. The world will betray you.   

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How To Solve Relationship Problems

It is not denied that couples may face relationship problems in the future. Human as they are, their love is subject to some tests to endure to the end. Surely, the endpoint is their love and eternity. In reality, it is not a hoax that there are millions of couples who are experiencing relationship problems. If couples fail to know various factors that may lead to relationship problems, it is often difficult to solve such problems. Since there are myriad issues interwoven in a married life, couples must tackle them one by one in order to be prepared for future disagreements. In some cases, it is helpful for couples to read self-help books, attend seminars designed to keep relationship of married couple intact, surfing articles on the net, opt for counseling, learn from successful married couples, and keep up with trial and error. 

In all relationship problems, the most common root cause is lack of proper communication. All things can be discussed in a proper way. Solving relationship problems involves checking on the way a married couple communicates, and then reminding themselves to remain kind, loving, understanding, and patient with one another. There might be increasing influences outside the marriage that could cause it to crumble, but faith in God, fidelity and mutual understanding of married couples is secrets of a happy life. To solve relationship problems, any element of pride and selfishness must be avoided. After all, a human heart always thrives to love deeply, truly, and faithfully when allowed to believe in the truth. The truth is that wickedness can never be happiness. A wicked person prefers to be selfish and lean on pride. Hence, a married person must choose to be humble, loving, and kind if only to solve relationship problems. 

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My Regency and Stories

I shared this story when I was a guest blogger in another blog. A comment mentioned that this story is nice. Hence, I decided to share it here for my readers to read. As a love story, it has to be viewed as heartbreaking yet full of lessons.

There was an old man who used to wait for someone in a bench at the park. He was not that old enough to forget the place. He brought with him some food and a hat placed in a small bag. Out of curiosity, I went closer to the old man. I wanted to talk to him and ask him why he always stay in the park almost everyday.

When I seated beside the old man, he smiled at me. I started a conversation. After so many words, I finally asked him this one vital question in my mind: Why are you here in this bench almost everyday?

The old man answered: "I had once loved a girl when I was nineteen. We decided to get married, but her parents would not approve. That girl belongs to a different race. She is half-Japanese and half-Filipino. She was brought to Japan in order to be separated from me. Before she left, she promised me that she would come back. And that we will meet here in the bench. Now that I am old, I am still willing to wait for her. You will never know, even her spirit would fulfill her promise".

This love story is based on reality. One lesson that I learned from this: Love must be genuine enough to move mountains. The old man is very faithful to the extent of forgetting himself. Would the woman he loved know it? No matter what, love must be genuine.

love letter...faded memories... yet love must be genuine..

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Betrayal in Love

Most people do not know that some women are wise in terms of love. They are smarter than a robber in stealing one's heart. A woman is sometimes much stronger and valiant than a mighty soldier just to fight for her only love. Other women knew how to make things all right just to appease a man's worried mind. Some women do not consider friendship when it comes into love. For instance, if both women loved the same guy secretly, the tendency is that one will betray her friend. Betrayal in love is common among women all over the world. And that is a fact.

Since most men are aware of these scenarios, they were amazed how women fight over their hearts. So, what is the catch? I write about betrayal in love issue because I was benefited in this situation. I had a friend, friends, and even best friends who betrayed because of love. But you know, I am glad they did it. I had  now the courage to think that men are not all and all in this world. Women should be wise enough to win over a betrayal in love situation. After all, if the man really loves you, he would stand by you. Otherwise, he would help your friend, best friend, and their best friends to hurt you. Hence, betrayal in love is a situation that woman must find strength for. No one could pin a woman down if she would not allow anyone to do so. So, girls! Remember the mantra: mind over matters of the heart. Happy Valentine's Day!

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My Love Story

This post is a reply to Beanizer's request about my own love story. Beanizer is a regular visitor of this blog.

Back Story

Love is something that I look forward to in this life. It gives me a reason to smile, laugh, think, work, hope, help, and be the best that I could be. But I learned one lesson about love that made me a better person. I met Enzo because of fate. I fell in love with him because of charm. And I fell out of love because of hope. One day, i had a feeling that Enzo would be the guy for me. Why? We share the same interests, we had the same dreams in life, and we both believe in being sentimental. We used to talk within long hours about things that makes life mysterious. We deal with the same problems. We had been separated for years and met again amidst the twist of fate. Enzo's eyes are magical. Having a gaze with him is forever. Well, that is the problem. Having magic is not forever. With just one click of the magic wand, it may end, stop, deteriorate, and disappear. He fell in love with a common friend without me knowing what is going on. Cheating heart. He did not only cheated on me, he turned my world upside down. Maybe, the magic went dreary and our love fell apart. No, it is my world that fell apart. I have to leave him for good. Indeed, the magic must end. There was only true love and great love is only for  moment. He was just a great love but not my true love.

Lesson: Loving someone does not mean being with the person forever. If it is not meant to be, there is nothing wrong finding someone else and fighting to forget the past at the same time.

I Found The Castle

For sometime, I went somewhere to move forward. I wanted to find the castle that has been promised to girls that were betrayed by their love ones. I walked, traveled, and climb the mountains to pick the pieces as fast as I could. I will not let time kill me of the pain that I felt. I must do something to live again. Well, it was not easy. But it could happen. Let us say, I met a prince in a certain place. He was alone. He is looking for her princess. And there I am, shedding a tear. The prince wiped the tears and married me when the sunshine finally comes in. I am now happily married living under a castle roof. My love life in the past turned into a cottage of hay. Is it not interesting? There is really something at the end of the rainbow. Believe me.

  

Don't stop believing!

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Love Is Mysterious

There has been many changes on how people view love. Others would say that it is an essential ingredient for a happy life. Other would prove that love is the source of pain and trials. One person even told me that love is the answer of his prayers. For me, love is forever. When it strikes a person, of which I am referring to true love, love will never end no matter what.

I had one story to tell to prove that it is true. My friend's mother told me one sad secret. She was a Muslim. When she was young, at seventeen, she was betrothed to a young man who is also a Muslim. The guy belongs to a rich clan in the community. In their culture, marriage will be fixed by their parents. She was inclined to leave the house in secret for one reason-she fell in love with another young Muslim. However, her parents knew about her plan. She was forced to marry her fiancee in a much earlier date then. Hence, she still think of the man she loved despite the fact that she is already sixty years old! That was her agony for so many years. For her, she always wanted to be married to the man she truly loved. But fate twisted it all.

Love may be mysterious and powerful, but it had one weakness. The weakness of love is love itself. Imagine how brave the Muslim girl was, to live with her husband for so many years despite the fact that she loved someone else. She was told by her parents before she got married that when she would continue seeing the young man, he would be killed. For that, she cannot afford to let it happen. In exchange of her man's safety, she married the guy that his parents arranged for her. Indeed, love is powerful. Love never has to end, but it could sacrifice for some reasons.

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